< Daughter last wish >
Over the years , Mr. Ho and his wife have been working in aviation Shantou, Guangdong . A daughter began to follow them in Shantou , and later because studies sake, back home in Yangshuo .
Early April 2012 , 12 -year-old Jacqueline Ho dizziness, headaches , Guilin grandmother took her to the hospital, the diagnosis was " cerebellar gliomas ." Heard the news, Mr. Ho and his wife rushed back to Guilin Airlines . From that moment, the father 's heart was hanging up.
Doctors recommend immediate surgery to children , for pathological examination to determine the degree of malignancy . Before the first surgery , He Yue and previous knowledge in Shantou friend on the phone , in order to let other people worry that she repeatedly told friends she was asked to secrecy on the phone , and said so ill go back with them meet.
After the first surgery, Jacqueline Ho coma and wake up soon , in order to wake her daughter , Ho Hang bedside in hospital , kept talking to her when he said to her daughter : "You wake up quickly , ah, I may send you go to school . " little Yue He seemed to hear the whole thing , even waking up , but she did not recover good physical condition , the eyes can not be opened . She laboriously by hand eyelids a little , looked at the side of his father , and immediately fell into a coma. The moment her daughter 's eyes , so Ho Hang heartache.
Soon, HE Yue started rehabilitation , physical condition gradually improved , during back to school also participated in the exam .
However, when the pathology results came out, grief gripped Ho Hang heart - Jacqueline Ho was diagnosed with high-grade gliomas , six months to a year may be expected to recur . Reality is cruel, early September , He Yue sicker , admitted Yangshuo County People's Hospital for treatment.
20 days later , He Yue condition deteriorated , where the first aircraft and took his daughter Affiliated Hospital of Guilin Medical College . Doctors said that even if a second surgery, it can not change the condition. But so painful to see her daughter , Ho decided to give it a go Airlines , requiring reoperation .
Just a second surgery the night before , her daughter suddenly emerge sentence: . " Dad, I have only three months, I want to donate organs ," Ho Hang startled mind : "Who only three months of ? "
Daughter replied: " I listen to the doctor to his mother 's ." Originally, HE Yue overheard conversations of doctors and mothers , know their condition.
" Do not be silly ! " Grief Let Ho Hang some angry daughter of a casually back . In fact , her daughter 's words made him Xinrudaoge . Children teens , her condition has let the father can not accept, even if Dong Daozi on this little body , where the first aircraft would not give imagination.
12 year-old daughter, how would think so ? Ho Hang figure out , though he knew that her daughter is very good . 2008 earthquake, the daughter not only donated his pocket money , but also literally forcing him and his wife donated a month's salary. HE Yue after the first surgery , primary school teachers and Campbell where she donated 2,000 yuan love money . At the time, she asked what the first Air : "Dad, this money I have no control over ? " Ho Hang said: " someone else for you, you can certainly discretionary ." She directly said: "I want to donate , there are people over I need the money . " and then, her medical expenses have to make this a family debt .
Daughter, big, little mention what the requirements are likely to donate organs of her last request , yet Ho Hang stumped , let him both contradictory and sad.
You are my pride
Soon, under which the first aircraft 's insistence, HE Yue conducted a second surgery, and return to Yangshuo County People's Hospital rehabilitation. He encourages doctors responsible for the treatment Yue : "Let perseverance , to walk , the sick will be good ."
But the reality is that her condition continues to deteriorate , it is difficult to get out of bed walking , dizziness , fatigue , and palpitations so many people do not have the courage to even get out of bed , and Jacqueline Ho dad every day leaning , walking two or three in the hallway back and forth.
Soon, the most worrying thing happened , doctors found Jacqueline Ho cerebellar tumor has spread to other brain tissue , the condition deteriorated again . During that time , where the first aircraft and daughter seem to have in my heart and silently count the days. Although distressed, do not want to mention , but what the first aircraft began to seriously consider her last wish .
He consulted the matter to the hospital organ donation Pan doctor, online searching for relevant information , I learned that many patients are waiting for an organ transplant , the last line waiting to be born. He knew it was the first aircraft to do a good thing , but as a father , his heart is still struggling : " ! Want me to donate her daughter's organs, such as saying it, I am sad ah ."
I did not expect , and before he was ready , so he is most afraid of that day came.
November 15, 2012 , HE Yue condition deteriorated sharply , about 11 o'clock that night , they are not breathing on his own , the hospital for her to put on a breathing machine .
November 16, 2012 , where the first aircraft to face the most painful in this life , the most memorable moments , her daughter was diagnosed with brain death , the doctor is about to unplug the ventilator, he wants to do with her final farewell . Daughter so small, so thin, quietly lying on the bed . The 40 -year-old father of her daughter's cheek last wipe tears wet his face again .
Daughter's wishes, has been rolling back and forth with the father 's heart , but the moment has finally figured out what the first aircraft . This is the last wish daughter , even if not the heart , he let her go at ease. If her daughter's organs can really save a life , then her life will have a continuation .
Ho Hang know , has been living in the village for the family, especially the elderly, even cremation is difficult to accept things , let alone donated organ . His first daughter's wishes to tell the brothers and sisters , the family are silent. HE Yue 's mother grief , but her final comment was "respect her decision ." HE Yue grandmother until last to know the news, though not bear , but she knew it was time granddaughter last wish , tears , acquiesced.
November 16 morning, how to find a doctor first aircraft , the official indicated that you want to donate her daughter's organs free . 16:00 , in the presence of Guilin Red Cross Organ Donation Coordinator , Mr. Ho and his wife signed the Air " Chinese human organ donation registration form ," according to the norms of human organ donation and processes donation program started.
At 0:10 on November 17 , HE Yue never left . Surrounded by his family , she was like asleep calm and serene. He first aircraft fell on the bed, choked singing : "You come back , I am a person not afford ...... flag, you are my pride ...... " His voice intermittent, grief and hoarse. Daughter awake at the last minute , has been singing two songs . He finished the first aircraft , with tears said to her daughter : "You finally sing , that's it , is not it ...... you are the proud dad's dad is proud of you ? ." Then , the presence of people could not help but cry.
Then , the group rushed to the PLA 181 Hospital, Yangshuo County People's Hospital , Ho Yue again to check the status diagnosis has been reached to be donated , and meet the donation requirements. Then , why the Yue family and medical staff held a farewell ceremony , they are around the bedside, tears , witness the 12 -year-old child at the last minute , also made the final goodbye to her. Subsequently , HE Yue was sent to the PLA 181 Hospital , and soon , the doctor with her liver and kidneys saved the lives of three patients .
He said the first aircraft , the daughter of the move , he touched most things in this life .
Where no Riverside next month
181 Hospital of the People's Liberation Army donated a kidney transplant Ho Yue gave two patients , one of whom is a 18 -year-old Tibetan guy children Sonam Wangchen . He was diagnosed with uremia before the college entrance examination , dialysis treatment almost spent all their savings at home. In fact, Jacqueline Ho Ho and his father before his death had read the reports together Airlines Sonam Wangchen in Guilin treatment time , and the two said , if you can think of ways to help this small group of Tibetan children enough. He did not expect the first aircraft , and finally turned out to be this way has helped. "It can be said that is a coincidence , it can be said that fate , perhaps destined somewhere ...... "
Generally , donors and donated by two people is not met , but Sonam Wangchen 's family strongly urged to meet Jacqueline Ho family. After the family's consent Ho , Nov. 21, 2012 , Sonam Wang Qing's parents came to Ho , Ho Yue worship them first , and then the representative of the Tibetan people , white hada highest respect and a embroidered cloth Dalat Palace embroidery dedicated Ho Hang one .
Sonam Wang Qing's parents wanted a piece of what Yue photos, and let Ho Ho Hang Yue write on the birth and death , they said: . " Our family will be small HE Yue forever enshrined as a general Buddha " Sonam Wang Qing's mother has been a central gold treasure this photo , and often out of view , I watched the tears will flow down.
Because of this donation, Ho Hang invited to Tibet. When you go to the Potala Palace , his hand holding the phone , that there are photos of her daughter . He first terminal aloft wistfully at the distant sky , and daughter goodbye when sung again blurted out. It was a father for his daughter 's dismay , thoughts and prayers .
Before turning cylinder rows , where the first aircraft murmuring : "Daughter , your wishes us to help you complete ."
At the time, "moved China" 2012 Person of the Year contest has been launched , many users all over the country to vote for Jacqueline Ho , and left a memorial of her text. As of the close of poll , HE Yue won 493,782 votes , to become " moved China" 2012 Person of the Year .
In "moved China" on the show , the host Bai Yansong asked Ho Hang: "You signed the organ donation application time, no tears it?" Ho Hang, said : "After her surgery , there in front of me to flow through the tear, I also not in front of her tears ...... " But to finish the sentence , the father has choked too strong a word did not.
HE Yue 's medical expenses spent more than 10 million, but any donations for the first couple of aircraft subsidies Fenwenbuqu , also rejected outside help. One person asked them : "To cure his daughter still owe money how ? " They replied: . " After slowly still , we can also work" Ho Hang , said: "I want to be thoroughly unpaid donation, the only way is true for her daughter 's desire . "
He lives in Northern ordinary residential building , the main room walls plastered with all kinds of awards received at school HE Yue . Ho Ho Hang Yue room door hung the portrait , presented a bouquet of flowers before the portrait . Ho Hang said: "This is a bouquet of flowers to the home of several strangers come ." Photographs HE Yue smiled slightly , looked at the front , it seems that the future life is full of anticipation and longing .
Although a few months have passed, but her family is still unable to leave the touch of pain. A lot of people understand is that the November 25, 2012 , where the first aircraft have to sign the application for free organ donation , he said: ? " ( Otherwise ) one day , I go down , how ( her daughter ) said her daughter have done it , I can not lose her . "
Time seems to back, back to Ho Yue lifetime , once in a church language lessons , she and her classmates learn the American writer Linda Rivers ' eternal eyes " , the article describes the author's parents and daughter have donated for the blind cornea story. The classroom , where Yue was touched , Gonggongzhengzheng jot down in a notebook the words: "A person can give the most precious things of others , than a part of his body ...... if we can have a body after death help restore the health of others , then our death is meaningful . "